General Information

Raising an autistic child while coparenting with a narcissistic coparent is one of the toughest challenges you can face. You want to provide a stable, supportive environment for your child, but the toxic dynamics with your ex can make that feel impossible. Parallel parenting offers a way to protect your autistic child from emotional harm and create one healthy, ASD-friendly home. This post will guide you through trauma-informed strategies that help you narc-proof your kids fo

Navigating family court can feel overwhelming, especially when trauma from past abuse or difficult relationships makes your reactions different from what they need to be . For narcissistic abuse survivors, and trauma survivors, the emotional rollercoaster of custody battles or legal disputes often triggers PTSD symptoms, making it harder to present your case clearly and confidently. Yet, there is a powerful tool you can develop to protect yourself and improve your chances: em

Solo parenting can be a beautiful journey, but it can also be incredibly challenging. When crises arise, single mothers can feel like they're battling something bigger than what they can see and touch. Whether it’s a family conflict, a health scare, or a financial struggle, mothers often find themselves in spiritual warfare. The devil loves to target mothers, and families. So in these moments, it is essential to leverage the strategies the Catholic Church gives us, to ward of

When you’re navigating a custody battle or any family court situation with a high conflict ex, the challenges can feel overwhelming. Sometimes, the conflict goes beyond disagreements and turns into a form of legal abuse . This happens when your ex uses the legal system not to seek justice but to control, harass, or exhaust you emotionally and financially. If you suspect an ex displaying narcissistic patterns of behaviour is engaging in this kind of manipulation, recognizing t

Raising a child with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) comes with unique challenges, especially when it comes to managing meltdowns. These intense emotional episodes can be overwhelming for both mother and child. For single moms, staying calm during these moments is crucial—not only to help soothe their child but also to maintain their own well-being. This post explores practical, effective techniques that ASD moms can use to stay calm and support their child through meltdown mo

Here I talk about Mom's autism. Some of the advice below is better suited for single moms on the spectrum parenting neurotypical kids. My Podcast is where I focus on the ASD Mom + ASD kids combo. Autistic single mothers face unique challenges that often go unrecognized. Balancing the demands of parenting while managing sensory sensitivities, social expectations, and sometimes limited support can feel overwhelming. Yet, many single mothers on the spectrum find ways to thrive b

Many autistic women find themselves repeatedly targeted by narcissists. This troubling pattern is not a coincidence. Understanding why women on the spectrum attract individuals with NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) can help autistic women protect themselves and build healthier relationships. This article explores the dynamics behind this attraction and offers practical insights for ASD women navigating relationships. Part of narcissistic abuse if a deep feeling of isol

In this post I discuss general thoughts on coparenting an ASD child. Most of them do not apply in the context of parallel parenting, when the coparenting relationship is highly litigious and feels like there's a power imbalance. I wanted to write this piece nonetheless for anyone who's not living that reality, and is just a single mom to an autistic child. The assumption here is that the coparenting relationship is highly functional. My Podcast however is where I dive into h

Narcissistic abuse can leave deep emotional scars. Many survivors feel lost, confused, and unsure of how to move forward. If you are reading this, you may be seeking guidance on your healing journey. You are not alone. This guide aims to provide practical steps and insights to help you reclaim your life and rebuild your sense of self. Understanding Narcissistic Abuse Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional and psychological manipulation. It often involves a partner or fami

A quiet space for mothers healing from trauma and parenting in peace Mindfulness, gentle parenting, trauma and faith Hello there. Welcome. My name is Faustina and I'm so glad you're here. This blog is intended as a safe space, a place of peace and quiet for mothers navigating spicy situations. I believe the years of chaos that I went through have taught me a thing or two, and I want my suffering to bear fruit. If you prefer the written form, the blog and the transcripts o