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Many autistic women find themselves repeatedly targeted by narcissists. This troubling pattern is not a coincidence. Understanding why women on the spectrum attract individuals with NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) can help autistic women protect themselves and build healthier relationships. This article explores the dynamics behind this attraction and offers practical insights for ASD women navigating relationships. Part of narcissistic abuse if a deep feeling of isol

I'm Faustina, and this space is for mothers who are learning to find peace and faith in the middle of life's hardest seasons. Sometimes we don't choose the fight. The fight finds us. It shows up as heartbreak, exhaustion, betrayal, or endless responsibilities that never seem to stop. For me, it showed up through motherhood, through trauma, through co-parenting, through moments that tested everything I thought I believed. When the battle found me, I used to think peace meant e

In this post I discuss general thoughts on coparenting an ASD child. Most of them do not apply in the context of parallel parenting, when the coparenting relationship is highly litigious and feels like there's a power imbalance. I wanted to write this piece nonetheless for anyone who's not living that reality, and is just a single mom to an autistic child. The assumption here is that the coparenting relationship is highly functional. My Podcast however is where I dive into h

Narcissistic abuse can leave deep emotional scars. Many survivors feel lost, confused, and unsure of how to move forward. If you are reading this, you may be seeking guidance on your healing journey. You are not alone. This guide aims to provide practical steps and insights to help you reclaim your life and rebuild your sense of self. Understanding Narcissistic Abuse Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional and psychological manipulation. It often involves a partner or fami

A quiet space for mothers healing from trauma and parenting in peace Mindfulness, gentle parenting, trauma and faith Hello there. Welcome. My name is Faustina and I'm so glad you're here. This blog is intended as a safe space, a place of peace and quiet for mothers navigating spicy situations. I believe the years of chaos that I went through have taught me a thing or two, and I want my suffering to bear fruit. If you prefer the written form, the blog and the transcripts o